Monday, October 19, 2009

What should be the main priorities of the local church?

Worship. Others. If we could visualize the priorities of a church, I would see it this way: Faithful attendance and participation in spirit and truth in worship on Mt. Zion every Lord’s Day. This would be the top, the crest of the mountain. From there, the priority of the church should be each other, our families and our fellow members. This is the beginning of the “rivers” that flow from the origin of the Spirit (the top of the mountain) to the Church, and then down the mountain into the valley of the world. Worship and mountains are frequently associated with each other in the Bible. This is because we are to understand the connection between worshipping God in the heavens and our entering into those heavens with God when we worship.
Christian education is absolutely crucial as a priority for the church and esp. for the family. A church can have an intimate link with the support of parents and their responsibility to provide/give a Christian education to their children. I see a parochial school/co-op system to be a great way to educate children. A full-fledge day school can be a great way to go to, though the cost is a significant issue and the fact that they often compete with the church in their tendency to take center place in the family’s life and culture is a problem. Hear me, I would love to send one or all of my kids to a godly day-school, but I am concerned about how children are so loaded up with schoolwork that it crowds out everything else in their life.

One critique that I would have of the CREC is its placing its priority of the church in only worship, family, and Christian Ed. Worship yes, ministry to strengthen the family, absolutely, and a high regard for Christian ed. yes. But what is missing? The Church for the world. We should worship, build up “our community” (the family, the local church’s ministry and fellowship itself and devotion to a Christian ed.) and then, we must orient ourselves towards hospitality and involvement in the institutions of the city i.e. (City council, volunteering, community events, Boy Scouts etc.); You name it, places where there is potential in the city-the world- for relational development with the lost. We must get involved in the place where God has put us in the world. We aren’t here to isolate ourselves from the world and hole ourselves up in our church bldg’s, families, cars, cubicles at work, little Christian schools and then back again. Where is the time to invest in sinners (Jesus was a friend with notorious sinners wasn’t He?) if we spend all our spare time running our kids to soccer practice, piano lessons, debate club, church activities that we could let go, and 2 hours of homework every night that we must help our children with? But let’s face it. There’s not enough time to devote to friendship with the lost if we are too busy with 50 day-school activities, too many church events, and if our families are shy and overly independent from others. I think we need to rethink the way we do some things. We need to prioritize people more with the way we arrange our lives and institutions, to the degree that we are able. I am not against the day-school model. I am concerned however that families in them are too busy with homework loads and other functions. Can we provide more time for them to do their schoolwork at school? I think their is room for flexibility. I would love to send some of my kids to a day-school but the cost and homework are major issues for me.

In sum: Faithful worship, healthy families and a solid Christian education are the most potent things for evangelism, but they are not sufficient without face-to-face contact and involvement with the world outside.

So, to return.. Worship. Others. We learn to worship God individually and corporately and then we build our church up in its fellowship and community..By doing so, we strengthen the broader Church and our families as well. Healthy marriages and families in turn, build up the Church. They both feed into one another. After this, we pour out ourselves in faithfulness through relationships in our respective vocations and in ministry to the community (Chaplaincy, prison ministry, friendship evangelism and hospitality, pregnancy care center volunteering, nursing home visitation etc. etc.,) The Church of the Lord Jesus Christ is to minister mercy to the poor, dysfunctional, and messed up people of the world. God will bless us with growth if we do these types of things. I believe He will bless us with gospel growth, and not just sheep-stealing from other churches.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

This is excellent. Thank you for sharing your heart and thoughts on this.

Unknown said...

I think you hit the nail on the head Ben. Being predominantly Postmillennial, you would think that the CREC would have a keen interest in missions (not just theologically but practically). Missions and evangelism help to keep the church healthy by focusing it outward rather than inward on all our problems and bickering. But, as you point out, we have made our lives too busy to befriend unbelievers.

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BJ said...

Thank you guys, appreciate it.

Robin, how was the turkey?